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1 tahun 3 bulan

Anak umur 1 tahun 3 bulan. Berat 9kg+. Sekarang sedang mengalami masalah tidur siang. Dulu sebelum itu boleh tidur 2 sesi. 1 sesi max 3 jam. Min 1 jam stgh. Makan ok, nasi 2 kali shari, breakfast kadang berat, kadang ringan2 shja. Aktif bermain. Malam tidur paling lewat 9.30. Paling awal pkl8. Bgn pagi pkl7. Spanjang mlm x penah tjaga. Minta susu waktu mlm pun x. Siang tidur dlm buai, mlm di atas tilam. Tp skrg xnk tidur dlm buai, penah tdur di tilam tp sgt2 susah, ambil masa yang lma sangat, sehingga sy rasa putus asa. Kerja rmh smua tgendala, kerana ank nk mengempeng. Tp bila ddk di ruang tamu dgn dia, blh pula dia main sndr. Tapi bgn ja nk jln masuk ruangan dapur, menangis. Dh smggu lbih xnk tidur siang even 1 sesi pun, terasa badan ank dh susut. Sedih bila peluk..... mcm mna ya nk ajar ank tidur siang ibu2? Sy ibu yang bkerja. Di tmpt pngasuh juga pngasuh mengalami masalah yang sama juga. #firstbaby #ingintahu #pleasehelp

Aiyoh, mama, I can really feel the stress dalam message ni, one of my mum friends went through exactly this phase around the same age, and it was rough. Dari the details you shared, sounds like dia might be going through a developmental leap or separation anxiety spike (very normal at this age!), and refusing the buai could be a control thing or just a new preference, babies ni sometimes out of the blue decide "nope, not today!" Nak suggest you check in with the paediatrician just to rule out anything physical (teething, ear issues, etc.), tapi if that's clear, consider trying the tilam consistently at a calm time when you're both relaxed, maybe with a comfort item or routine, and try not to show your stress (I know susah!), sometimes babies sense our desperation and it makes things harder. The fact she's happy playing alone in the living room tapi cries when you go to kitchen is classic separation anxiety, so maybe the issue bukan tidur je, tapi reassurance lang. Give it time, be consistent, and don't lose hope, this phase does pass, I promise!

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