bob smith, United States

what do you let your kods do that most parents whold not allow? my bro is severely autistic and had 4 brain surgery's as such my careing skills are different. some of these things we (me and my mom) let him do because of his disability some is because its a right of passage for kids to do. what do you let your kids do (please make it in list format and explain why). 1. running butt naked (even infront of company). if hes more comfortable that way i shud i put clothes on him? and btw we have all wood floors so pee and poop wipe up easily. (were still working potty training.) 2. scream and shout. if he can't or won't talk he screams (i only allow this in the house) all he wants. 3. throw food. if its bad i say we have a food fight. 4. drawing on EVERYTHING walls, floors, NOTHING IS OFF LIMITS. i encourage his imagination. 5. paint on us (with washable body paint) and the walls. see #4 6. junkfood everyday all day. my son is a picky eater so if he eats anything im so happy. (i give him a multivitamin to make up for all that he lost). 7. eat with his hands. its SUPER SUPER MESSY but he loves it. 8. were mis matched clothes in public. if that means him wearing bright green pants a pink shirt sandels and a hat to church well gess what hes wearing it. 9. haveing "messy bath's" we get them off of Pinterest sencery baths for kids. 10. sleep with me. (hes got his own room) but if he wants to sleep with me he can. 11. jump on furniture and beds. (he has a trampoline and mini trampoline in his room) its just he likes to jump on furniture ?. 12. play in mud. ANYWHERE. sure i was late taking him to his ABA but we had a blast getting soaked. btw. he went in to his ABA dripping mud the other kids and adults looked at us like we were crazy. (ok only some did) a couple of his teachers said "will its good he's having fun.?????. 13. pee in the shower. (if i can get him to pee i will (he once peed on the floor while i was cleaning up after arts and crafts i said (in my happyist voice i could) i said "buddy wow you made a bid peepee lets get you cleaned up" 14. baby talk . if he understands it better. I'll do it. 15. splash in the bath so what water gets EVERYWHERE hes having fun. and 16. love him unconditional. he's tout me so much. so much. ❤️

my 25 yr. old bro is autistic. we have tried EVERYTHING to get him on the toilet nothing works. please reply

what do you let your kids do that other parents don't allow in your house?

hi i have a 25 yr old awesomely autistic brother im looking for a nice friendly group for him and me to talk with thanks. and please if you have a problem with him PM. me. thanks. oh do to his autism he says ANYTHING from pee to poop but he can't help it so please take it easy on him. and he LOVES cartoons and sesame Street. thanks. and he had 4 brain surgery's in the last year. oh if i don't respond im taking care of my bro. or playing with him. etc. Thank you. Although im not a parent im his brother and full time care giver our (me and my mom and all our family) love for my brother is so strong words can not explain it. To my brother : Alex my amazing bro i love you so much the things you say i can not understand but i try my best to see you're world although i don't know you wold it bleeds into mine and lets love, patients, and kindness in it in my wold theres hate cruelty, and sadness but when i see you it makes my wold seem softer. you have autism and i whant you to know that we love you. Autism is not a disability its a different ability. i love you so much words can never tell.

my 25 year old. brother is severely autistic and had 4 brain surgery's as such my careing skills are different. some of these things we (me and my mom) let him do because of his disability some is because its a right of passage for kids to do. what do you let your kids do (please make it in list format and explain why). 1. running butt naked (even infront of company). if hes more comfortable that way i shud i put clothes on him? and btw we have all wood floors so pee and poop wipe up easily. (were still working potty training.) 2. scream and shout. if he can't or won't talk he screams (i only allow this in the house) all he wants. 3. throw food. if its bad i say we have a food fight. 4. drawing on EVERYTHING walls, floors, NOTHING IS OFF LIMITS. i encourage his imagination. 5. paint on us (with washable body paint) and the walls. see #4 6. junkfood everyday all day. my son is a picky eater so if he eats anything im so happy. (i give him a multivitamin to make up for all that he lost). 7. eat with his hands. its SUPER SUPER MESSY but he loves it. 8. were mis matched clothes in public. if that means him wearing bright green pants a pink shirt sandels and a hat to church well gess what hes wearing it. 9. haveing "messy bath's" we get them off of Pinterest sencery baths for kids. 10. sleep with me. (hes got his own room) but if he wants to sleep with me he can. 11. jump on furniture and beds. (he has a trampoline and mini trampoline in his room) its just he likes to jump on furniture ?. 12. play in mud. ANYWHERE. sure i was late taking him to his ABA but we had a blast getting soaked. btw. he went in to his ABA dripping mud the other kids and adults looked at us like we were crazy. (ok only some did) a couple of his teachers said "will its good he's having fun.?????. 13. pee in the shower. (if i can get him to pee i will (he once peed on the floor while i was cleaning up after arts and crafts i said (in my happyist voice i could) i said "buddy wow you made a bid peepee lets get you cleaned up" 14. baby talk . if he understands it better. I'll do it. 15. splash in the bath so what water gets EVERYWHERE hes having fun. and 16. love him unconditional. he's tout me so much. ❤️