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Bella Sam, Singapore

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Mom to an OX and a SHEEP ❤️

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My baby has a tendency to hit/scream at me. I'm worried if she goes into childcare at 18m, she will hit and get hit by her friends. How do I overcome this? And how do I ensure my baby doesn't cry too much in school as she's very timid?

I suggest discussing this with her class teachers and principal and find out what is the teachers and school's policy/approach when a students hit each other and what they would do when a child cries excessively. Would they carry the child away, timeout? (Hopefully not) etc.. Then you may consider following the same approach such that there's consistency in how you as parents and the school caregivers would react when she hits. I find that giving my child positive affirmations builds her confidence. Eg: "thank you for picking up your clothes, that's very responsible of you." Or "thank you for telling me that you need a milk instead of crying" or "thank you for putting your cup on the table, that was very helpful." My child was very timid and shy but she became very sociable and independent after going to cc.

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How do you put your baby to sleep without having to latch on? My husband is frustrated if I have nights out with my girls as he cannot put her to sleep. She'll wait for me to come home and then she'll nurse to sleep. And thanks to that, I have to always be home early! :( I only get nights out once a week.

your baby can sleep on her own without you nursing her to sleep. you just need to let her have the opportunity to learn how to do so.

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My baby just started walking. We're looking to buy proper shoes for her. Shoes that will not cause her to have blisters etc. Stride rite or clarks? Why? You're welcome to intro other brands to us too :)

Pediped is a good choice. Though its more on the pricey side but its a good starter shoes as its very soft and has good support for learning walking.

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Mummies who are breastfeeding and have clingy babies, how do YOU handle separation anxiety? My husband wants a staycation with me but I cannot bear to leave my 7 year old and my baby who just turned 1. Moreover, I'm still nursing my baby. I can't bear to leave her in the hands of my parents or mum in law. I know it's unhealthy for my marriage. But I have never separated from my baby. She goes wherever I go. What do I do? I'm so confused!

You really need to adjust yourself and give your Husband and yourself a break. It's really nice to have parents or mil to help out while you can have some couple time alone. In order to keep a marriage strong and healthy for the children, Hou would need to learn to love your Husband more. Learn to let go~

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I've tried BLW for my baby since she was 6 months old but until now she plays with her food. She's 1 year old now.. How do I ensure she eats properly instead of playing with her food? As I know that after 1 year old, food is more important than milk.. She drinks only 120ml of milk. And not taking much food too :(

there seems to be periods of feasting and fasting - continue to offer balanced meals and include her in mealtimes. watch her intake on a weekly instead of daily basis. as long as she's well, meeting milestones, generally happy and not losing significant weight, i won't be worried. continue following your baby's lead

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Hello parents! My baby is turning 1 and I'm planning to do a cake smash photo shoot for her. But i need ideas for props, can you spam me photos of your baby's cake smash photos?

Thank you so much for sharing your experiences, Carla Perlas! Much appreciated! :)

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My baby is 11 months old today. Her top 2 teeth are coming out, I can see them. Problem is, she's running a low grade of fever 38 degrees and has had 5x watery stool since morning. Should we bring her to the PD tonight? Or continue to monitor?

Sent her to the PD ytd night. Thank god for my instinct. She has stomach infection and is on antibiotics. Thanks for the replies!

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Any mummies here who used to be working full time converted to stay at home mom and is feeling a little lonely, sometimes stressful and feeling guilty of not being able to earn on their own? I don't wanna be selfish, my kids needs me but each time I wanna spend, I gotta ask husband. Not that he minds, I do. I feel guilty. I used to be very independent. Spending on my own, never asked him for money. He prefers me to look after the kids myself. He said, "if you don't, I'll quit and look after them while you work"

Thanks for the heads up. Reading just one comment, at least, makes me feel so much better.

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Hello Mummies. My baby is 10 months old now and I'm doing BLW with her. Right now I am guiding her to self feed using fork and spoon for Rice with soup and when she's eating noodles. But she prefers to use her hands instead and will not drink the soup. How do i get her to hold the fork and spoon? She throws it every time I try :(

Hi there, I found this baby feeding video on youtube (link below) and I found it super informative. It's important to establish the link between utensil and the mouth by lots of practice. Initially you can guide her along but subsequently, you should let baby hold the spoon and even if she throws it away, pick it up, wash it and let baby try again. It will messy but apparently it's part of the learning process :) Think your baby is doing well for her age, just keep encouraging her :) https://youtu.be/XoVfF3BACvA

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