Mahigpit na yakap

Yung feeling na pag niyakap mo step daughters mo, mas mahigpit pa ang yakap nila. Pag hinalikan mo sila kahit teenagers na, hinahalikan ka din nila, mas madiin pa. Yung pag nag "i love u" ka, sasagot sila ng "i love u too" plus kiss. ... ... Yun pala may tinatago silang galit sayo na hindi nila masabi. Yun alam mong may problema sila, ikaw pala. ... ... Ang hirap nilang hulaan, kahit na madalas akong natama. Minsan mas natutuwa pa ako pag mali ang iniisip ko. #overthink #stepmomhere #unconditionallove

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Uy, ang ganda ng bond ninyo talaga, yung ganyang physical affection from teenagers is honestly rare na ngayon, so treasure that! Pero I get it, sometimes we moms overthink ang bawat hug at "I love you" wondering kung may hidden feelings underneath, kaya minsan parang detective ka na lang trying to read between the lines. A few of us stepmoms actually talked about this, and realized na sometimes kids show love through intensity, mas malalim ang yakap, mas genuine ang feeling, hindi sign ng problema, you know? The fact na minsan you're wrong about what they're feeling and ok ka dun is actually a good sign na you're not creating drama where there's none, which is honestly the healthy way to be. Keep showing up, keep being their safe person, that unconditional love mo, they feel that, I promise.

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