A year ago I started to join sahm group & found like minded mommies around & I feel good getting to know more people rather than depressing being sahm. As times goes, our toddler are going to preschool. I felt that the moms are completing whose kid are smarter, & which prestigious preschool, what enrichment they attend. I felt pressure becos I think that's not the goal for being in a support group. Someone pls advise me should I leave the group or just remain silent after..