Working mom experience

As working mom na nagwwork sa corporate may times na biglaan may dinner ang boss and di ka makaalis dun sa resto na pinag ganapan ng salo-salo, tho nagpaalam ka sa asawa mo na malelate ka nagagalit and para kang nakapatay ng tao pag nalate ka umuwi and di ka rin naman nasusundo I just want to express how I feel hurt today, alam mo yung after mo sa work mommy ka naman walang natatapos na trabaho walang pahinga di uso I am trying my best in everything I do, I couldn't feel may value ako sa asawa ko. Bawal magdahilan kahit commute ka kahit traffic. Sisihin ka pabaya ka kase 😭

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Ay nako, mama, I feel you talaga, the guilt-trip over something na work-related and out of your control ay sobrang unfair, lalo na pagod ka na from the whole day. A few of us sa circle namin na corporate workers din ay nag-usap about this exact thing, kasi parang di nila gets na sometimes work obligations ay non-negotiable, especially sa boss level stuff, pero ang partner ay parang personal betrayal agad yun. You're doing double duty, career and mom life, and instead of being appreciated, you're being made to feel bad about it, which honestly breaks my heart for you. Maybe when you're both calm, sit down with your husband at explain na the lateness isn't a choice and that you need him to trust you, not make you feel like a bad person, kasi you're clearly doing your best. But if the anger keeps happening like this, baka it's worth talking to a counselor together, kasi that pattern of blaming you for things outside your control ay hindi healthy. You deserve a partner who's on your team, mama.

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