My wife is very hot tempered and she like to hit me when she lose her temper. She will dig her fingernail into my skin and sometimes she will slam my head against the wall. I don't want to hit her back. I love her. I believe she loves me too. How can I calm her down. And stop her from abusing me like this.

This isn't fun, I've similar experiences.. Get a chance to open a conversation about these incidences, listen and try to understand what is our wife are thinking, why she act so.. be very sensitive and observe what she says and does throughout time, it may show some signs that triggered such temper/emotions. Reach out for help if needed.

i dare not say anything, too many variables that only you and her can know and understand. seek professional help. couples councelling can be quite helpful and unlock many issues. Respect to you for not hitting back. A weaker man may not have the same control. But relationship physical violence can't be good for children to see.

slamming your head against the wall is a bit of an anger issues already. Help her to have a breathing exercise every morning sir. Sit with her and talk about your good bondings or experiences in life. If you want to calm her down, before she hits you must already give her a hug or hold her hands then tell her to breathe for a second. 😊

hey dats gd that u dun hit her. I like that. I would strongly encourage you to talk to her. Make her feel that you care and you are there for her. Ask her if something is bothering her?? Like Work , Friends, Family, Any childrens , Personal, Health n etc?? See how you can help her out?? I hoped things will be good ok. Cheers.

well. sounds like she is having problem controlling her anger. u might want to find out more about anger management and bring her to see a Dr. it might help. Of course, don't let her abuse you like that. one fine day you might just had enough of her, then you'll pack your things and leave. Seek treatment fast. all the best:)

Just because she is a woman or your wife, you will let her do such terrible things to you, sooner or later it will affect not only you, but your marriage. Doing nothing only means you're okay with it and she might get worst as time goes by. Talk to her and the best is to have her see a specialist to help her manage her temper.

I'm so sorry to hear that but have you tried to consult a Psychiatrist? Your wife shows that she has an anger management problem. She has no ability to control her actions especially when she is in rage and it is not good to the both of you, especially on your part that you are experiencing domestic violence.

Talk to her ask her to do meditation sessions for few weeks regularly and then analyze the situation. It entirely depends on the mind to control things. Listen to her carefully and deliver what she is expecting, but this will be temproary fix she needs to control the mind through own thought process

try to solve this solution by discussing first but if she cant tolerate. u need to be firm and stay away from her for a while to teach her why she need u and this is how to teach her on being respective to u also.If there is really no solution i think u need a third person for marriage advice.

Great that you don't hit her back. Whenever she does this hug her tight that she can not even move calm her and tell her that you love her and make her realise that she is hurting you emotionally and physically. Try to sooth her anger. . Hopefully she will recover. .