When did you know that your partner was "the one"? Was it something like love at first sight or did they have to grow on you/win you over?

Alm kong sya na tlga. Kse sa lahat ng lalaki mssbe kong itong asawa ko ang nagtyaga sken ng bongga. Way back march 2016 when we first met, unang kita ko plng sa knya yoko tlga sa knya as in, sensya pero di sa maarte or something, mahilig kse ako sa matngkad, magnda ang katawan at my itsura na guys which is ung asawa ko ni isa dun sa katangian wla sya bukod sa maputi lng tlga. Payat sya nun sobra bata prn kse sya that time so tlgang that time kiber ko sya kht mrme nagssbe na my gusto sken hnd ako interested kse that year broken hearted dn ako sa ex ko nun pero kht gnun na hnd nya cgurado kng mppnsin ko sya push prn sya, kse ayoko tlga sa knya kse inshort mapili ako at pihikan that time kht di nmn ako kagndahan (kapal muks e.😜😂) Then september 2016 nagstart sya manligaw sken kse sbe nya una plng na nagkta kme nun march gusto na tlga nya ko kso dko sya mapnsn. Nung nanligaw sya nun nagtry ako magpaligaw pero still kht ilang bwan nkalipas yoko prn tlga kse tropa at friend lng ang kaya ko ibgay dhil kybgan sya ng classmate ko which is iniicp ko nun pano kng naging ex ko na sya edi pag ppnta ako sa bahay ng classmate ko mag end na hnd na kme magpansinan. Kaya nung october 2016 1month na sya nanliligaw binasted ko sya, mas pinili ko ung lalakeng ksbay nya na nanliligaw sken. Todo kontak sya nun sken, umiyak dn sya gang sa blinock ko sya sa fb para mkamove on sya agad. Tpos kinokontak nya bestfriend ko at dun sya nagssbe ng sama ng loob na bkt dw ako gnun. Then ayun pinili ko na nga ung lalaking ksbay nya pero unexpectedly hnd rn kme nagtgal kse gago pla. 2017 ng april nagbreak kme ng guy na un. Broken hearted ako ulit iyak dto iyak dun. Gang sa november 2017 ngulat ako inadd ako ulit ng guy na blinock na asawa ko na ngaun syempre inaccept ko lng, pero wla sa expectation ko na gusto prn pla nya ko kse my gf brn sya nun bestfriend ko lng kse nagsumbong sa knya ng dko alm na snbe nya single na dw ako ulit kaya inadd ako. Then year 2018 feb. Nagkayayaan na magswimming sa lugar nla kng san kme una nagkakilala nung year 2016 sa cavite un. Edi swimming swimming pero sken alwas na un kse alm ko oks na sya at tgal na nun. Pero dko alm liligawan pla ako ulit at ngsbe sya ng mlaks loob sbe nya bhla na dw kng mabasted ulit pero wla tinamaan dw tlga sya sken e,. Kaya nagulat ako gang sa naicp ko sa srli ko bkt bko hahabol at ipipilit ung srli ko sa mga lalake na gusto ako sa una lng at bkt hnd ko itry ung lalake na umpisa plng ako na ung gusto at mahal, na alm kong mamahalin ako kaya ayun naicp ko sa srli ko na why not try him. Then nging kme na dhil ung gf nya nman nun wla nrn nman cla ilang bwan na dhil hnd nman dw nya un mahal npilitan lng sya kaya nung naghiway sla at nabalitaan nya na single nko di na sya nag icp at nanligaw ulit. After a month nging kme di ko na sya pinahirapan kse ung hirap nya ng paghhntay sken ay sapat na sguro, halos 2 years 2016 tpos 2018 nging kme. Kaya pag naiicp ko un naawa ako sa asawa ko kse parang hnd nya deserve na gnun ung gnwa ko sa knya. Kng alm ko lng umpisa plng na ito ung lalake para sken sana pinili ko na sya nung una plng kht na ang arte ko tlga nun. Corny ng kwento pero para sken kse nakukyutan tlga ko kse alm ko nsa tamang tao ako and now ito magkakababy na kme. 7months preggy here.😇 Wag lng tlga magmadali my tamang tao na ibbgay si lord pra syo. Maghntay ka man ng mtgal but worth it ang paghhntay mo kng sakali.😇🙏

It was never a love at first sight thing but I knew that he was the someone because I really prayed hard for him. I asked God too many times to give me signs if he was really sent to me to be my partner for life. Everything went slow as in from courting phase, di ko sinagot agad even though I know that I am already falling because I wanna know him more and I wanna be careful not to get my heart broken again. 🤣 Masasabi kong he's the one because I'm growing because of him and he's also the reason why I'm always trying to be at my best. And it's really true, when you're with the right person everything turns magical. Hehehe. Corny but yea, even simply looking at the person makes you feel so good, happy and content. ♥️🥳😘

I actually prayed for him. I was in pain from a failed relationship and I surrendered everything to the Lord, I wrote a letter and burnt it, in the letter it says, "Kung handa na po kayong ibigay yung taong para sakin, magiging handa na rin po akong magmahal ulit." The next day, got a FB friend request from my chilhood sweetheart (pre-school classmate/crush hehe) then next thing you know, we're on our 9th year now, got married and a parent to our super duper lovable son ❤

I knew that he's the one because he's so different from all of my past BFs. During our first date as a couple I never expected him to bring me to church instead of some other fancy places. We went into the prayer room, kneeled and closed our eyes to pray. After we finished praying I asked him what did he prayed about. He said it's a secret 😁 but gave me a hint that it's something to do with us and with our relationship. ❤️ I was really touched.

I personally don't believe in love at first sight. I think that's merely attraction. :) In my case, it happened over time. My partner had to win me over. It helped our relationship because it made it more stable and less shallow. :) It also helps to be friends first. I think that allows for a deeper kind of love to blossom and grow.

Before my husband and I dated, I was very specific with the qualities I would like in a man. I asked for all the qualities I would like in a partner in my daily conversations with God. So nung nakilala ko na siya, I knew he was "the one" because he was an answered prayer. 🙏❤

Along the way napapansin ko na we’re both growing together. Sa pag iisip, sa pag gastos, sa pag handle ng away, well actually we never fought like sigawan o sakitan, wala pa. Doon ko narealize na, “eto na ‘to. Eto gusto kong kabwisitan sa pang habang buhay ko.” 🥰

nag promise ako sa sarili ko na kung Sino man yung dumating sya na talaga Ang last at until now yun sya na nga tsaka sya na love at first sight sakin hehe😆 but sa ilang buwan nya na pag suyo yun sinagot ko sya then now mag kaka baby na kami kaya he's the one💖

Sounds corny but when we met for the first time and started talking to each other, I knew in my heart right away. Lol. Not that love at first sight thing though, pero ung first time kami nag-usap feeling ko our souls connected agad. ❤️

When you feel that you hate and love your spouse at the same time. When you feel that you really hate him/her but still your love for her/him engulf the hatred that you feel. When you reach that stage you can say that he/she is the one.