Hey mama, sending you a big hug, I can feel how worried you are, and that's so normal for a first-time mom.
Please talk to your OB about both things, the "grossly male" finding and baby's size difference, as soon as you can, kaya? They need to explain what they're seeing and make sure everything's okay, lalo na at 38 weeks na kayo. "Grossly" in medical terms just means "clearly" or "obviously," so it's not a bad thing, it's just their way of saying the gender is very obvious in the scan, hindi ka nag-neglect, promise. A few of us moms went through similar scares with growth measurements, at bawat baby talagang may sariling pace.
But your doctor really needs to assess baby's weight and that gestation age difference, that's important for your delivery plan. You didn't do anything wrong, mama. Reach out to your OB today if you can.
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