I had two miscarriages, one in which it came out naturally. But that natural miscarriage did not “cleanse” my womb. Which meant that there were leftover tissues in my womb. Subsequently I got pregnant again, but I miscarried again. This time round I wanted to let it come out naturally again, but I decided to go for a D&C after realising my womb might not be fully cleared of the tissues and clots. The d&c surgery was done quickly, I’m out in about 30mins? Rested in the hospital then I’m good to go back home. Minimal pain, actually close to no pain, just maybe a little cramp that’s all. Otherwise I’m good. Decided to go for the surgery to “clean” my womb and maybe have a fresh start again? Hope this helps you, and sorry for your loss..