Mom's guilt

Hi just wanna share what's on my mind later, im a mom of two my older is 6yrs old and my 2nd is 8mon. old. I do love my kids so much and i admit i have a bit of anger issue like sobrang bilis mainis or mapikon etc. So ayun nga naguguilty ako sa attitude ko towards my panganay simula kasi ng maipanganak ko yung 2nd ko lalo nakong mabilis magalit like kahit simpleng mali lang ng panganay ko naiirita nako sakanya nagagalit nako. Sobrang nalulungkot ako kasi minsan piling ko dinadamdam na niya natatakot ako na baka isipin niya na hindi kona siya mahal or what baka magtanim siya ng sama ng loob. Sobrang lambing ng panganay ko at sobrang mapagmahal. Sobrang kulit din siya yes pero piling ko sumosobra na ako sa pag gagalit sakanya minsan nakakapagbitaw nadin ako ng masasakit na salita sakanya to think na he's only 6yrs old i don't know what to do im trying naman na bawasan pagiging mainitin ang ulo pero minsan sinusubok talaga ko 😞 btw im 4mon preggy again so minsan iniisip konalang din na baka dala lang ng pagbubuntis ko ulit kaya ganon ako sa panganay ko pero ayaw ko dinnaman ijustify yung ginagawa ko sakanya dahil lang buntis ako hays i don't know nalulungkot ako para sa panganay ko. And im scared na baka pag nanganak ako ulit lalo akong mawalam ng time sakanya diko alam i need some thoughts from you mga kamomshie :(

Vô danh

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Ate, ang galing mo na nag-recognize na yan at willing mag-work on it, maraming parents na hindi pa nakakamit yan na self-awareness kaya give yourself credit naman. A few of us moms went through the same thing after bumuntis ulit, and honestly parang ang hormones talaga plus the overwhelm ng caring for a baby and a six-year-old, it's a perfect storm, pero the fact na nag-aalala ka para sa feelings niya shows kung gaano mo siya mahal. Maybe try talking to your OB or a counselor about how you're feeling kasi having two under your belt plus pregnant again is a lot , and hindi ka crazy or bad mom for struggling, sometimes we need professional support to manage our emotions better, and that's okay. In the meantime, maybe when you feel the anger building, pause for a second, take a breath, and tell your panganay "Mommy's feeling frustrated pero it's not about you" kasi kids understand more than we think, at pati na important na alam niya na mommy's working on herself for him. You've got this, and you're not alone sa feeling na ito

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