You’re absolutely right in saying that baby only settles down when you get the right angle and position. Once they get it right, the milk can flow nicely. Breastfeeding and even bottle feeding takes a lot of practice to get it right. It’s good that you and your wife are gradually finding the right positions. Soon you’ll achieve this faster and baby will also become better at finding the best way to get milk. If you feel like you’d like more guidance, lactation consultants are attached to every hospital with gynae services, so you can try getting an appointment with them for more coaching:)
Rae