I would not abort it because I don’t want to be guilty and regret for the rest of my life. Having another child whom I will love dearly is a blessing.
Are you sure your marriage will still be safe even after abortion?? You must know where the problem lies with. It does not lie with your baby. You and your husband choose NOT to acknowledge the issue (which you have mentioned above). Both of you choose to leave it like that which everyone should know this can affect marriage or relationship and it will accumulate.
So even if you abort it, your issue still stays in your marriage. If your marriage still fails after that, you will ended up guilty, regret and broken marriage.
I believe all of us are adults here and should know how to handle problems responsibly and maturely. Solve the issue.
All the best.