Hay, totally understandable ang takot mo! Yung tanggal tahi ay may slight discomfort lang usually, parang tugging sensation, hindi talaga painful, pero ang anxiety ko rin dati ay parang mas masakit kaysa actual procedure hehe, siguro kasi we're scared ng unknown. Definitely tell your doctor or nurse beforehand na nervous ka, kasi they can go slower or explain what they're doing step by step, which really helps; a few of us moms talk about how mas okay naging experience namin when we said something. Try to relax and breathe din habang ginagawa, it makes a difference talaga!