Aww I totally get it lah, sometimes the replies can be a bit harsh when moms are just trying to seek comfort or learn from others' experiences, bukan trying to be difficult. A few of us have felt this too, you ask something genuine and someone replies as if you're being silly or irresponsible, which honestly just makes you feel small instead of helped. I think most of us here just want to share our journeys and hear "oh I went through that too" or "try this, worked for me", not judgment or a lecture lah. Hopefully more of us can remember that behind every question is a real mum who's just doing her best and sometimes needs a listening ear more than a correcting one.