missed miscarrige

Oh sayang, I'm so sorry to hear what you're going through, please know you are not alone in this, and it's completely okay to feel lost right now. From what I've generally heard, if you're not sure about the result, it may be worth getting a second opinion from another specialist just to be certain before making any decision, because peace of mind matters so much at a time like this. Some mums who waited the week naturally did experience spotting and mild cramping as the process began on its own, but a few others found the waiting emotionally very difficult and eventually chose D&C for closure and to move forward sooner. There's no right or wrong choice here, both are valid, and what matters most is what feels right for you and your body. Do have a gentle, honest conversation with your doctor about all your options, including the natural process, so you fully understand what to expect and when to seek help immediately. Sending you so much love and strength, dear.