Sabar ya, kak, losing a pregnancy is really tough emotionally and physically. What you're describing with the spotting and light bleeding on and off sounds like it could be normal healing after a miscarriage, but since it's been going on for a while now and you're still having discharge come and go, I think it's best you check in with your gynae just to make sure everything is clearing properly and there's no infection or retained tissue. A few of us mums went through similar and the doctor just wanted to confirm everything was okay, so don't worry lah, it's just peace of mind. Take care of yourself, and sending you strength during this time.