How to feel sure about baby being okay?

This is my second pregnancy I lost my first child during week 11-14 while waiting for the next doctor appointment in 1month time. When I went to the doctor appoint they said my child heart stop beating. It's abit traumatizing so I'm not sure how to feel sure tht my baby is alright other then having to keep on gg extra scaning when I'm unsure as I'm taking private gynae for my second child it's abit expensive. But I can't help but worry if my child is okay or not. I'm currently 14weeks n in few more days I'm gg for the 3rd doctor appointment n I'm afraid tht experience will come again....

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I'm in week 16 and I have the same thoughts as you. My next scan is in a few days time but I can't help to feel fear and excitement at the same time. Fear that my baby is not well, but yet, looking forward to seeing how much my baby has grown. Every new week, I googled to see what're the signs of a healthy baby but can never be sure of it. I can only trust the process and tell myself that as long as no unusual symptoms, there's nothing to worry. I hope and pray that our babies are well and may we have a successful delivery! stay strong and positive! 💪🏻

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1y trước

thank u I will pray both of us to have a successful delivery too💪