Aiyo, understandable la your worry, tapi honestly year-end babies aren't as "kesian" as people make it out to be, a few of my mum friends have December babies and they're doing just fine in school and work, takde masalah sangat. The thing is, you can't really plan for exact delivery dates macam tu unless you're doing another elective c-section (which your doctor would decide based on your health), and forcing an induction or early delivery just for a date might carry more risks than it's worth, especially since you're aiming for a normal pregnancy this time. Best thing is to focus on staying healthy, monitor your BP and glucose levels closely, and just let baby come when ready, whether Dec or Jan, your child will be fine!