Eh sabar sabar, swelling and that mucus discharge boleh jadi sign baby preparing even if you don't feel obvious contractions yet, some mums experience it quietly macam you! The fatigue for intimacy is totally normal at 39+ weeks, your body is exhausted lah. Since you're getting close to the induction date, definitely check with your doctor at your next appointment to see if cervix ada progress, because sometimes things happen slowly but steadily even when you don't notice. Doakan semua goes smoothly for you and baby, and try to rest and stay hydrated you're almost there!