Wah sayang, 3rd degree tear ni memang serious, you must see your doctor or go to hospital straightaway to check the healing and get proper assessment, okay? Ini bukan boleh tunggu-tunggu. Once you've done that, your doctor will advise you on next pregnancy based on how your recovery goes, every case berbeza. I know a few of us yang ada similar experiences, and they managed okay with proper follow-up, tapi really kena discuss dengan your OB/GYN because they'll assess the scar tissue and what's best for your body. Stay strong, mama!