Sayang, I'm so sorry you're going through this again, it's really tough emotionally. A few of my mum friends have been in similar situations, and honestly the choice between natural or D&C is so personal lah, depends on your body, your comfort level, and what your doctor advises, because at week 9 there are things to consider like incomplete passage and infection risk. I'd really encourage you to sit down with your gynae and talk through both options properly, they can explain what to expect with each one based on your specific situation, and that will help you decide what feels right for you. Sending you strength through this difficult time, and please do lean on your support system.