Be Kind and Courteous

As long as there's an option to hide your identity by being 'anonymous' I don't think TAP users will have 100% wholesome environment for everyone. Some people will still use it as a getaway excuse to be rude and judgemental to others. I thought people here will understand kung anong pinagdadaanan natin kasi almost all dito may anak na or buntis rin. Pero I was wrong. Nakakapanglumo lang basahin yung rude na comments sa post when all you did was post your experience. No harsh content, no rudeness, no hostility sa post pero ang mga comments ng ibang users subrang rude. It was a special day for me and I just wanted to share it here but some users always find ways to shed some negativity out of it. Most people tend to judge u by ur post thinking that you're just posting for the sake of flaunting. Andami ng negativity dito sa TAP and every once in a while ok lang nman cguro na magpost tayo ng something positive. Most users, pag nag post ka dito ng positive, magcocoment agad na feeling celebrity ka, na kaartehan lang ang post mo. Which I don't understand qng bakit natin dina down ang isa't isa na alam namn natin na di yun tama. Di natin alam ang pinagdadaanan ng iba, qng ano ang real situation sa mga buhay nila pero ambilis natin mang husga at magmura na parang kilalang kilala na natin sila. Ang ANONYMOUS option dito sa TAP is not here for you to use it para murahin ang ibang tao, magcomment ng nakakasakit sa iba at manghusga. It's here para sa mga tao na gustong e.hide ang identity nila specially if maselan ang topic or post. Some posts may be naive but it's not an excuse to be RUDE. Nakakalungkot lang. I hope and pray that those people will eventually realize na being mean doesn't do other people good and it surely doesn't do good to yourself as well. 🙏

Yung mga rude na comments un ang nakaka pang lambot e, bago most of them anonymous. Pwede naman mag react sa post in a nice way kaya nga bago tau mag comment sa isang post nakalagay BE KIND AND RESPECTFUL TO FELLOW PARENTS. Masyado na magulo sa labas, sa ibang apps toxic na din kaya sana dito sa TAP ma preserve ung magandang samahan, totoong care, understanding.🥰 and one thing po ung ibang mommies here tama naman ung iba paulit ulit nalang ng tanong bago magagalit pag di na re-replyan agad pls use po natin ung SEARCH bar baka kasi may mga nakasagot na din po nyan..wag din po natin expect pag nag post tau dito agad agad may sasagot. Dahil nag based lang din po ang mga nag co-comment dito sa nakikita sa feed nila. Minsan nga po ung last yr pa or matagal na dun palang nasasagot malalaman nalang pag nag comment di ung nag post na matagal na ung post nila or what. Again tama po LET's TREAT EVERYONE WITH RESPECT❤️🙏🏻🥰

But also consider filtering some of the sensitive photos which other members often forget to do. Some contents really bother others, especially pregnants (like me) who really becomes paranoid when I see something unpleasing as such fluids from the body, rashes in the most sensitive parts. I am not to complain against them (the members who freely post sensitive pics), and their concerns... But perhaps, filtering them would help create healthier environment. (yknow not just removing anonymous button) Thank you!

Hi TAP requesting na sana itanggal ang anonymous dto sa app na ito. Napapansin ko lang halos lhat ng tao na nagaanonymous is ang harsh sa ibang mommy na nagtatanong lang. If tanggalin niyo ang anonymous probably magiging much better ang app na ito and surely pagiisipan nila ang icocomment nila. Plus have a permanent name sa tap if tatanggalin anonymous madami maglalaro ng names that could cause also harsh to evey mom na asking lang naman. Thanks!

Also, while I was scrolling and answering some questions may nadaanan ako na naghahanap ng Preggy dito na gusto ipa-ampon ang baby may alam daw siya na gusto mag ampon. Please wag naman po sana ganun. I know you have a good intention pero hindi po kasi ito ang tamang lugar o platform na dapat mong hanapan ng ganun. Take it in a legal way po. Meron po tayong ahensya sa ganyan bagay tulad nalang ng DSWD. Sorry pero saken po kasi foul yun. Di ko lang alam sa iba.

I admit, may isang post dito na naging rude ako sa ibang mommies. When in reality, I was just stating the fact na "Google is our friend" and prangka talaga akong tao. Take note, I didn't go anonymous ha, buong buo pangalan ko nung nag comment ako 😅 but some mommies went anonymous para masabihan ako ng "ulol" "gasgasin ko muka mo" and stuff, don't you think admin na it's time to remove the option of being anonymous?? Duwag kasi ibang mommies dito hahaha

I agree na sana tanggalin ung anonymous dito sa TAP, some of them kasi binabash ung ibang post ng mga mommy's nakakaoffend. We are here to listen, to advise if we know what was the problem is hindi yung e bash ung tao and also to know what we need to know more about babies or pegnancy or what so ever pero di nman sana yung pang babash sa ibang mommies, baby's, or preggy's .

I agree sa ibang momshies. Please do remove yung anonymous chuchu. Some of their posts are very non-sense and mentally and emotionally not healthy for other mothers and soon to be mother (like me). Di na nakakatuwa kasi. Porke may anonymous, nagagawa na nilang mag post ng ganyan. Sana yung ibang mothers na gumagamit ng anonymous, be SENSITIVE sa mga posts niyo. 😊😊😊

We should filter also yun post about abortion, it is not right to post it here or in any apps. Suggestion lang din to other members try to use the search bar. Minsan kase same question lang at paulit ulit tapos magagalit pag walang nagreply or nagcomment sa post nila. Avoid textspeak nalang din.

Hi guys!!! I'm a first time mom..my baby is now 3 months old... I am having a difficulty of feeding him.. I am not a breastfeeding mom..because my nipples are too small and inverted..and i lost milk.. ask ko lang po mga momshies.. how many times a day should i feed him with milk.. and gaano kadami??