just to rant.. i ask for divorce.. due to my husband aint helping.. when i needed help to carry baby, he give me a face to show he is reluctant to help.. not only this.. there are other issue which makes me unhappy.. he aint helping to look after kids.. he makes me feel he aint putting heart into family.. i tried communicating but he is always on his phone.. now since that day, he every day come back to bath and step out house again.. he didnt even talk to kids.. say separate 3 months first then decide.. i told him i dont want cause i had enough.. and now every day come back, bath and goes out again.. not even talking to kids.. im so pissed..... sorry for ranting