baby dah takde ke....? :/

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My Pregnancy Diary : 30/6 : masa buang air kecil, perasan mcm ada keluar drh, tiba² rasa mcm period dah lewat... so, check upt, upt samar. 1/7 : excited jumpa doktor tp risau juga sbb upt samar. So, doktor scan. Rahim kosong. Doktor suggest utk check darah. Pregnant. Doktor kata baru 1 minggu. Aku pun terkejut. Ehh. Baru seminggu? 😵14/7 : check upt skali lg. Upt terang giler. So dah selang 2 minggu, aku pun kembali ke klinik yg sama. Scan rahim kosong. Aku kecewa. Hurm. So aku pun try ke klinik lain utk dptkan second opinion. So aku pergi ke klinik B dan ceritakan masalah aku ni. Bila juruscan dgr aku dah pergi ke klinik lain harini, aku nmpk dia scan ala kadar. Dia tak usaha langsung. Dia kata kosong. Dtg lg 2 minggu.15/7 : aku sedih. Aku pun try cari opinion yg lain. So, pergi lah satu klinik ni. Layanan baik sgt. Dia usaha cari kantung sbb risau luar rahim. Alhamdulillah ada kantung tp sgt² tak jelas.doktor suruh dtg lg 2 minggu.17/7 : asben tak tahu aku dah pergi 3 klinik utk scan baby. So, harini dia ajak aku utk scan baby. Dgn berat hati aku pergi. Pergi klinik yg dekat dgn rumah je. Alhamdulillah. Nampak! Masih kcik lagi. Nampak kantung je. Doktor anggarkan baru 5minggu 6hari. Kali ni baru doktor ada bgtau brape minggu. Doktor suruh dtg lg 2 minggu.21/7 : start spotting sebesar duit syiling 5 sen. Aku dah mula risau. Hmm :(24/7 : masih spotting. So aku pun pergi ke klinik B yg xnk usaha utk scan aku tu. Masih x nampak. Pelik kan. Klinik sblm ni scan nampak je kantung.  Aku terpaksa je pergi sini sbb ni je paling dkt dgn tmpt kerja. Doktor bg ubat duphaston.28/8 : masih spotting so decide pergi ke klinik yg aku pergi 15/7 haritu... scan kantung 6minggu 5hari..2/8 : iaitu hari ini... harini ialah ubat duphaston yg terakhir utk aku mkn... so, aku dtg klinik B utk dptkan ubat.. doktor auruh scan dulu.. mcm biasa, dkt sini x nmpk... doktor kata xde progress..kantung kcik sgt katanya..  dia suruh aku redha je... seminggu lg kalau scan nmpk kantung kcik ni lg, dia refer utk cuci... Harini memang drh keluar byk drpd biasa .. penuh pad... aku dah redha.... Apa aku perlu buat skrg.... betul ke baby dah takde.... siapa pernah ada pengalaman mcm ni? 🙁😪

Loke Mei Yee · Answer

Aiyooo mama, I can feel how exhausted and heartbroken you are right now. Please go to the emergency room or call your doctor ASAP , the heavy bleeding today needs to be checked immediately, okay? Don't wait. This is important. I know you've been to so many clinics and it's confusing because some see the sac and some don't, tapi with heavy bleeding like this, you need proper medical care right now , bukan wait-and-see situation. A few of us mums have gone through spotting during early pregnancy (super stressful!), but heavy bleeding like you're describing needs urgent attention from a doctor who can examine you properly, not just scan. They need to make sure you're physically okay and safe. You're not alone in this, and whatever happens, you deserve proper care and support, bukan just "redha" advice. Go get yourself checked, sayang.

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baby dah takde ke....? :'/