Uy, totally get mo yan, 36 weeks pa lang pero parang dadalhin ka na ng emotions, lalo na kapag may family pressure like that. Honestly, the stress you're feeling ay real and it can affect both you and baby, so it's worth protecting your peace na talaga; a few of us mums talked about this din, and ang nabago-bago talaga ng baby's heart rate at movements pag stressed ka. What I did was set boundaries with grace, I told my lola na I love her traditional knowledge pero I need to follow my OB's advice para sa safety ng baby, at hindi ko sinalita ng maraming times kundi one clear conversation lang, then stick to it. Maybe don't expose yourself sa her too much in these last weeks if it's causing you agitation, stay with supportive people instead, at if the stress keeps building, talk to your OB or a counselor kasi they can help you manage it properly bago magdeliver. You're doing great by protecting your pregnancy, and respecting elders doesn't mean you have to take on their stress, anak.