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Hello po, ask ko lang po kung ok or normal lang yung always inaaway ang asawa palagi po Kasi ako naiinis sakanya araw araw ko rin sya inaaway nakakairita Kasi kapag may ginawa syang Hindi ko nagustuhan or kapag tatambay sya sa labas ng 9pm to 11pm tas uwi sya 12 tas pahinga lang sya tas mag lalaro na cod, kaya naiinis Ako always ok lang po ba yon?

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Hindi po normal yan, sis, yung daily fighting like that ay sign na may underlying stress or communication gap between you two, kaya mas better na kayo mag-sit down at mag-usap ng maayos about what's really bothering you both instead of picking fights over the small stuff. A few of my mum friends went through the same thing, and they realized na sometimes the real issue is hindi yung COD or balik late, it's na feeling nila unappreciated or na hindi priority sila, kaya naging ganitong cycle ng aaway. If you're always irritated, it might help din na mag-check in with yourself kung stressed ka na rin from other things (parenting, work, etc.) kasi minsan yun ang trigger talaga. I'd say couples counseling or even just a quiet conversation about what you both actually need from each other could really help, wag hayaang maging normal lang ang daily fighting kasi nakakaapekto na rin yan sa buong household.

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