It's ok to leave your toddler in a safe place (if nasa bahay kayo), walk away, take deep breaths, and calm down muna before talking to them. Palipasin muna saglit ang init ng ulo, remind yourself that they don't know what they're doing kaya sila ganyan, and as toddlers, they'll really test boundaries. Hindi nila ginagawa yan para magalit ang mga magulang nila. That's really just part of their development.