Aw, ganyan talaga ang adjustment pag may bagong baby, hindi lang ikaw ang nagbabago kundi lahat ng dynamics sa bahay! A few of us moms talked about this din, and sobrang importante talaga na kayo ay magsit-down at talakayin kung ano talaga ang concerns ninyo, baka iba lang ng parenting style or expectations, pero same goal naman kayo na maayos ang baby. Try to find common ground on the big stuff (feeding schedule, sleep routines, safety) and let go ng small differences, kasi ang stress ng misalignment ay talagang nakakasama sa baby's energy din. Maybe involve your OB or a family counselor if it's really affecting your relationship, walang masama dyan, marami ring couples na nag-undergo ng that. Hang in there, mama, this phase does get easier once you both find your rhythm together!