Pano ba maibabalik yung spark naming magasawa? I tried getting fit but parang walang effect.

I've read lately about the Five Love Languages and it helped me a lot. Minsan kasi we show our love to our spouse the same way we want to be loved. Pero hindi lahat ng mag-asawa eh pareho ang love language. Kung ang asawa mo eh he feels love with acts if service, pagsilbihan mo siya like pagtimpla ng kape etc. That way nafifill mo yung love tank niya and mas madali ibalik ang spark. To know more about the five love languages, you can check this: http://www.5lovelanguages.com/