Okay lang ba mag walk out kapag nagkaroon kayo ng argument ng asawa nyo? Misnan kasi it's better to just cool off that say something terrible, but leaving a fight lingering is not good too.
I realized that this is a better way to let things cool down. Dati when I was so immature, I would push that we fix things right away. But there are certain things na kelangan mo pag-isipan mabuti, ung hindi ka mgdedecide because of pressure or mainit ang ulo. Instead of saying bad things that could hurt your partner, it's much better to stay away for a while. Then if you feel you're ready to talk in a calm manner, then that's the time you approach your spouse.
Đọc thêmFor me, okay lang na wag muna magpansinan. Madalas ganito kami ng asawa ko. Tapos, mag-bump in nalang ulit kami bigla at mapapatawa nalang kami dahil di kami nagpapansinan. Tapos makakalimutan na namin yung argument saka namin papagusapan kapag malamig na yung ulo namin. Kapag kasi nag-discuss kayo ng mainit ang ulo nyo pareho, ang tendency, walang magpapatalo. Kaya talk about the problem once na okay na at kalmado na kayo pareho. :)
Đọc thêmBefore, I find it rude whenever my partner would walk out during an argument. But when I learned that guys are normally like that instead na patulan pa tayo or mkapgsalita pa ng masama, I eventually understood why. In fact, mas gusto ko na mgwalk out ang isa samin pgmainit ang situation kesa mas magkasagutan pa lalo.
Đọc thêmminsan kailangan yan para hindi lumala ang tampuhan o away. madalas kase, the more na nag sasagutan kayo or nagpapaliwanagan doon lumalaki yung away. Kaya I think, ok lang naman yun pero dapat masundan ng heart to heart talk pag kalmado na kayo pareho.
I think okay lang naman na lumayo muna kayo sa isa't isa. Mahirap din kasi magbitaw ng salita na pagsisisihan niyo. Antayin muna siguro ang ilang minuto, dahil for sure hindi niyo din naman matitiis na hindi mag usap after a while :)
When you say walk out, as in alis lang ng walang pasabi? If ganun, for me, no. Kung aalis ka and need time to think, say respectfully na you need some quiet time and you will discuss together kapag you can both think objectively na.
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Don't walk out unless your wife knows the reason is to cool off. Rude kasi kung basta ka na lang tatalikod and lalo siya maiinis.