Eh, Birth Club Mac 2023 sounds really nice! A community where everyone's going through the same thing at the same time, that's actually so important because, honestly, friends who don't have kids or are at different stages just don't get it the same way. I think joining something like this is brilliant because you can ask the "weird" questions without feeling judged, and there's always someone who's been there already or going through it right now. A few of my mum friends found their closest circle through groups like these, and they're still friends now even after their kids grow up, it becomes about more than just the pregnancy and baby phase. Just go for it, join in the conversations, and don't worry about asking "silly" questions, I promise you're not the first one thinking it!