Ay, totally normal ang masakit sa simula sis, especially pag nagsisimula ka lang mag-breastfeed or pump, lahat ng friends ko nag-complain dyan! Pero kung months na and ang boobs mo ay swollen, tender, and painful pa rin kahit walang direct latching or pumping, I'd really suggest checking with your OB or a lactation consultant because may times na may underlying issue like mastitis or hormonal imbalance that needs attention. Ang sizing usually nag-settle down after a few months when your supply stabilizes, pero if yours stayed enlarged at painful para sa ilang months na, better safe than sorry talaga, may mga cases na may ganyan na naging okay lang after proper assessment. In the meantime, cold compress helps some of the mums I know, and loose bras na hindi tight, pero please do see your doc soon ha, kasi you deserve to feel comfortable!