Ay, napaka-frustrating ng situation na yan, especially kung feeling mo walang respeto yung ginawa niya. Honestly, a few of us moms have been through similar stuff with our partners, sometimes ang guys really don't get kung bakit nakaka-offend ang ganun, parang "joke lang" sa kanila pero nakaka-hurt sa amin. I think kailangan niyo talaga magusap nang malinaw, hindi lang through chat, kailangan niya marinig mo na this isn't about being sensitive, it's about respecting you as a person at as his partner, lalo na may anak na kayo. Try asking him kung paano siya makakatulong na ma-fix ang situation (like asking his coworker to take down the post), not just saying sorry, actually showing he gets why it was wrong and that your peace of mind matters more than a "joke" na nakasakit. Good luck, mama, hopefully after 3 days mag-cool off na siya at ready makipag-usap properly.