Fat shamed during Pregnancy

Wow. This "friend" of yours is pretty toxic, suggest that you stay away from her. Sounds like she'll be one of those who would also brag about other stuff next time, might as well cut her out early if you can, no need to keep such toxicity in your life. If your friends and family comment, just say tt it's common for the 2nd pregnancy to show more and faster since the skin is looser already. Thank you for their concern, and say that it's perfectly normal, then drop the topic. If they bring it up next time, just repeat the same line. They'll get it in time (unless they're obtuse). They probably didn't mean harm, but had nothing better to say.

Hi mummy, I am also on my 2nd pregnancy now. Same, also gained 20kg during 1st pregnancy and also gotten comments that I'm having twins 😑 This pregnancy, my bump was already noticeable at 8-9 weeks and at 16 weeks I already gained 10kg. I guess everyone's body is different. Just sharing this to let u know ur not alone! It's really annoying to receive comments like this. Hope u don't let them affect u.

Most important is that you keep your emotions stable. Distance away from toxic people or comments. Everyone experience pregnancy symptoms differently some gain weight some lose weight. Most importantly is baby is healthy.