I totally understand the feeling of wanting to find the right gynae who supports your birth preferences, especially when it matters so much to you. When I was pregnant with my second, I also spent so much time asking around because I wanted someone who would really listen and not push for intervention unnecessarily. A friend of mine actually went to NUH private and had a good experience with her gynae there who was very supportive of her natural birth plan, so it is definitely worth asking around in the NUH community specifically. I would suggest posting in the NUH Mummies Facebook group if you haven't already, as the mums there tend to give very detailed and honest reviews based on their own deliveries lah. Wishing you a smooth pregnancy and I hope you find the perfect match soon!