Hi Andrea, it's completely normal to feel anxious, but childcare teachers are absolute pros at handling this transition! To answer your questions: yes, the teachers will absolutely guide him to self-feed, and peer pressure works wonders when he sees his classmates eating with utensils. Even hardcore contact nappers adjust beautifully because the consistent school routine and peer environment help them adapt; the teachers will use soothing techniques like patting and keep you closely updated during the first week. When it comes to drop-off tears, the best trick is to keep your goodbye short, sweet, and confident—give a reassuring hug, say exactly when you'll be back (like 'after snack time'), and hand him over. If you linger, he will pick up on your anxiety, but most toddlers actually stop crying within 5 to 10 minutes of mom walking away. You've both got this!