Uy, that's such a tight gap, momshie! Honestly, a few of us with similar spacing found that the first few months are chaotic pero manageable, your eldest will still be pretty dependent so hindi siya fully aware pa ng dynamics, which is actually helpful. One of my mum friends who had a 16-month gap said her firstborn was more clingy to her during pregnancy kaya she made sure to do special bonding time with just him, like morning cuddles and their "special snack time," and it helped soften the transition when baby number two came. Patience with yourself is key kasi you'll be managing a toddler AND a newborn, so don't pressure yourself to have everything perfect, marami kaming tray-based meals at screen time nang walang guilt during those early months! How are you feeling na with your pregnancy while managing your son, that's the real challenge, di ba?