Hi momshie! I'm not taga Cagayan Valley myself, but I'm sure may mga moms dito from your area, this community is really spread out all over the Philippines! Maybe try posting in the regional groups din or ask during the weekly open threads kasi mas visible doon, at sigurado may makakasagot na malapit sa iyo! You're doing great reaching out, and I hope you find your local mama friends soon because it's so nice to have someone nearby na nakakaintindi ng struggles mo