Sayang, lepas ectopic pregnancy surgery memang kena beri masa untuk body recover dengan proper, doktor bukan nak marah, tapi they're protecting your health and your future pregnancies lah. 3 weeks je lagi too early, your body needs time to heal internally especially after surgery like that. A few of my mum friends yang pernah through similar situation, they all followed their doctor's advice for the 6-month wait, and honestly it made a difference. Pregnancy so soon after boleh increase risks untuk both you and baby, so the caution is real. I know it's hard when you're eager, but please have that frank conversation with your doctor, share your worries about family planning pressure, and they can explain better why the timeline matters. They're on your side, I promise. Take care of yourself first, then the family planning. You've got this!