Ay mama, first time mom guilt is so real, pero hindi mo dapat sisirain sarili mo, babies are naturally malikot at walang control sa reflexes nila pa lang! Since your doctor already gave you the game plan (alcohol and cephalexin drops), just follow that exactly and try not to overthink it; the folded part will heal, pero I wouldn't recommend swaddling super tight just to keep her still kasi you want that cord area to stay dry and get air din. A few of us tried adjusting our babies' positions more carefully during diaper changes and using a onesie na may snaps lang instead of tight wrapping, para ma-monitor pa rin natin pero hindi ganitng kalakas. Honestly, if you're still worried about healing or nakikita mo na may signs ng infection (redness, pus, fever), you know your pediatrician best, better to call and ask agad kasi peace of mind ng mama is important din! You're doing great, promise, umbilical cords are tougher than we think.