Husb spend duit diam2 dlm TT utk bgi gift dlm livestream.

Hi mommies, sorry out of topic, sy dh xtahu nk bertanya pndapat & nasihat kt mna sbb sy pn xnk org yg knl suami sy tahu apa dia dh buat, since this platform blh post anon pls do share ur opinions, sy tgh preggy almost 34weeks rn, few days ago was our first daughter's 1yr old birthday, we celebrated it 1 day after & tht night i found his chat with another women on tt. pp tu mnta no husb sy & found out they already save each other number since last month. sy nmpk juga history call diorg 2 maybe my husb x smpat clear, cht ws pula my husb on 24hrs disappear messages tu. so mmg kosong, xde cht. dlm tt je ada nmpk cht. i checked his gallery & find out dia ada byk record & ss yg dia bgi gift masa pp tu livegame. pp tu kjp pkai hijab kjp pkai seksi. seksi tahap yg nmpk lingerie je kt gmbr/vdeo tt dia. smlm pula nmpk misscall dri pp tu kt ws seawal 6am & my husb reply with chat sbb bru bgn masa kul 8am. tonight sy nmpk pula dia bgi gift kt pp lain yg livegame juga kt tt. i check history maybank dia & realize dia dh buang beratus2 ringgit utk topup coins kat tt. i dont even know sape je yg dia bgi except for those 2 women, second women tu dia bgi smpai 10k lbih coins, tu yg sy nmpk dlm ss kt gallery dia. before this my husb selalu cerita smua details klau spend duit or anytime dpt duit, skrg dh mkin perahsia, pswd bank on9 dia pn dh tukar, soalan sy kt sini apa hukum suami berbuat demikian. and apa yg sy patut buat. every night after nmpk cht dia dgn pp lain sy nangis mcm dh nk putus asa dgn semua ni, rasa mcm dikhianati sgt2, tpi husb pn jenis yg xprnh lupa/culas utk bgi nafkah. sy jeke yg overthinking? stakat ni sy xde ckp apa2 lgsg dgn dia. layan pn mcm biasa. even sy prasan dia pgg fon tu sembunyi2kan skrin fon spya sy xnmpk. sy pn buat xtahu je. xnk mngeruhkn keadaan. tlg la bgi sy pndapat yg blh tenangkn perasaan sy ni. dh pnt memendam mnangis overthinking tiap mlm tiap hari, rasa ksian dgn anak yg xtahu apa2 tgk mummy dia nangis je, husb g keje, sy kt rmh dh mcm xde smgt dh down gila, dia blik pn sy bkn dpt face to face tnya semua tu ngn dia. tlg sy mommies

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Ye sis, kena cari masa yang sesuai untuk slow talk dengan suami awak. Minta suami awak jujur, dan awak pun kena kawal emosi supaya terima dengan tenang jawapan suami. Sebab kalau kita ber emosi waktu suami jelaskan apa-apa kemungkinan dia tak kan lagi nak jelaskan apa² dan pilih untuk berahsia next time. Tanya dengan tenang, minta husb jujur. Awak luah tentang emosi awak, tapi dalam masa yang sama puji kebaikan husb. Cakap, 'saya tahu awak tak pernah culas nafkah, makan minum pakai, saya rasa bersyukur sgt bab tu, tapi hati saya tak tenang bila tahu awak sekian sekian..' Minta suami state reason dia buat macam tu, cerita semuanya pada awak. Sis jangan ngamuk marah2 , kalau sis nak nangis silakan sbb saya tahu bila cakap heart to heart ni mmg sayu je masing2. Sis pujuk la suami tuk luah dengan sis apa yang dia dah buat, kenapa dia buat macam tu? Sbb skrg your husb pun tak thu yang awak dah tahu. Awak yang kena mulakan dulu tuk tanya n pujuk utk slow talk. Cuba dulu sis.. smoga dipermudah urusan

tqq awak, insyaallah sy cuba utk bersemuka slowtalk ngn dia nnt, tgh mncari kekuatan utk ckp benda ni dpn2.

Hy mom In my own opinion You better face to face with your husband and slow talk with him… Everyone anyone can give opinion or advice but thats all we can do, and just you can take the step the action to solve it with your husband… In marital relationships, or any relationship, communication is very very important… Silent will kill us from inside… I hope you can slow talk with husband… i hope everything will gonna be okay better sooner… Think about your self, your future, your children… InsyaAllah ever will gonna okay…

thankyousomuch for ur advice, really really appreciated it

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