Aiseh, bersalin normal memang experience yang berbeza-beza untuk setiap orang lah! A few of my mum friends siap ada cerita dengan senang je, tapi some of us took hours and needed intervention, so tak boleh compare sangat. The best thing is go in with an open mind, do your breathing exercises, and have a supportive partner or doula dengan you, because honestly the emotional support makes such a big difference lah, trust me! Lepas tu, recovery pastu memang faster than C-section, which is nice for going back to normal routine dengan the baby. Have you talked to your doctor pasal your birth plan?