Pengalaman berjauhan dgn baby after abis ML

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Hi Mommies, ada ka antara mommy d sini pernah LDR with 3 months baby after done with ML? Minggu depan I kena balik kerja kat Labuan dah, baby pula tinggal dgn bapa dia and mentua I.. Reason knp i tak boleh bawa baby sama I sbb i tinggal rumah sewa dgn colleague and actually blh ja i bawa tapi aduh tkt bah nursery skrg ne tapi i akan balik every hujung minggu la.. bila fikir ja sakit hati la, what if my baby tak nak i and melekat dgn mom in law i? Im not gonna be there to take care of my baby as usual after this😭😭😭im first time mom.. tlg la nasihat or bagi kata2 positive utk i..#mohonbantujawabbunda #sharing

Soraya Rayboot · Answer

Ahhh sayang, I understand how scary this feels, a few of us went through the same thing, and honestly the guilt is real, but your baby will be fine and so will you! The most important thing is that baby is with people who love him, and you're coming back every weekend, he's not going to forget his mama, trust me, babies are so resilient and the bond you have won't disappear just because you're apart during the week. My friend's son stayed with his grandma while she worked outstation, and when she came back every weekend, the baby would light up, yes lah at first ada adjustment, but she said it actually made their weekend time extra special because both of them were so excited to see each other. The in-laws will take good care of him, and you being responsible and making sure he's looked after is already showing your love, first-time mom guilt is normal tapi don't let it eat you up, okay? Stay strong, and remember those Friday-to-Sunday cuddles with your baby will be the highlight of your weeks!

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Omg im crying while reading this, thank you so much sis😭😭😭its not easy..