Hey, congrats on your pregnancy! I totally understand the anxiety, first time is always nerve-wracking, and you want to feel heard.
The long waits at KKH are pretty common from what I hear, even with an appointment slot. A friend went through the polyclinic route too and said she waited quite a while most visits, so you're not alone there. As for the consultation feeling rushed, honestly, some mums have mentioned the same thing, that doctors seem a bit distracted or the appointment feels very quick. It's frustrating when you have so many questions, especially early on.
On the transvaginal ultrasound pain though, I'd really flag this one with your doctor at the next visit, or even call ahead to mention it. It shouldn't hurt that much. Everyone's different, but if it felt genuinely uncomfortable rather than just pressure, it's worth checking in, they may need to adjust technique, or there could be something else going on that's worth exploring.
Since this is your first time, you might also want to chat with your own GP or midwife about whether KKH feels like the right fit for you, or if there are other options that click better with your style. Trust matters a lot when you're pregnant. All the best with everything!
Anonymous