Sabar sabar, you've done this before so you know what to expect lah! The second time around recovery is usually faster because your body knows the drill, but honestly it's tougher mentally because you've got a toddler running around, a few of us went through the same and we found it helps to have your partner or mum really step up during those first two weeks so you can actually rest (I know, easier said than done with a 3yo!). Best to chat with your doctor about what's realistic for your recovery timeline and maybe plan some quiet activities for your older one during pantang period. You're going to be fine, second czer mums are absolute warriors!