Nak, ito talaga ay sobrang heavy at kailangan ninyo ng tunay na tulong, please both of you see a counselor or go to a pregnancy center na may trained staff who can talk to you both, kasi ang feelings and decisions na ito ay dapat talaga guided ng professionals, hindi lang online.
Naiintindihan ko, napakahirap ng situation na ito, lalo na kayo pa lang bata. Ang ex mo ay confused at takot, siguro, pero kailangan ninyo ng space to talk WITH support, hindi alone lang. A few of my mum friends na nakaranas ng similar situations, nakita namin na kailangan talaga ng third party, like a counselor or trusted adult, para malinaw ang thoughts ng both of you at makita kung ano talaga ang best for everyone, including the baby.
Malakas ka rin kailangan, pero don't try to figure this out alone, reach out sa family, sa health center, o sa trusted adults na makakatulong sa inyo both emotionally at practically. Kaya mo 'yan, pero kailangan mo ng support.
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