Ay mama, nakakaintindi ako, baptism pressure with budget constraints and family expectations is SO stressful talaga! Honestly, one ninong and ninang is completely okay and totally normal; maraming families ang ganyan especially when budget is tight, at ang importante lang talaga is ang blessing ng baby, hindi ang number of sponsors. One of my mum friends did the same sa first baby niya kasi sobrang mahal ng binyag, at walang problema, and the godparents nila were super involved pa rin. Siguro makipag-usap lang muna sa partner mo kung ano talaga ang concern niya about the religious aspect, maybe it's just the ceremony pressure and not the baptism itself, kaya baka makausap ninyo yan? As for family, pwede mo lang quietly explain na budget-conscious lang kayo and one pair of sponsors is what you can comfortably celebrate with, walang masama sa yan. Kaya mo yan, don't overthink it, the goal is si baby ay blessed at baptized, and you doing your best as a mom is already enough.