Aaah mama, yan talaga ang hardest part ng waiting game, sobrang stressful, lalo na first time mo! Honestly, 3.5kg pa lang yan at normal pa, kaya huwag mag-overthink about the size because marami pang mababago pa until labor (one of my friends was convinced her baby was huge, pero 3.2kg lang talaga), pero I totally get your anxiety, kaya siguro best mo talagang i-clarify sa doctor mo directly about your concerns: ipakita mo yung frustration mo at ang false labor episodes, at ask kung pwede mo i-request ang CS kung okay lang sa baby at wala nang medical reason to wait. Most public hospitals will listen if you explain na emotionally kina-drain ka na, at they might have options din para ma-reduce ang stress mo while you wait, pero kailangan mo talaga ng conversation with your OB kasi kami-moms lang kami, hindi doctors. Sending you so much strength mama, malapit na talaga!