Hay nako, sobrang challenging talaga yan, napakabilis ng pregnancy after pregnancy! Since you're spotting and your doctor said to stop, the breast engorgement is really tough to go through, alam ko yan. Try cold compress or ice packs on your breasts (kahit gumagamit lang kami ng frozen towel), at if the pain is unbearable, paracetamol can help; a few of us did that when we weaned suddenly and it made a difference. Pero mama, kailangan mo talagang i-follow up with your OB about the spotting and the pain, siguro may dapat i-check pa sila or baka may other options na hindi mo naskyentuhan, kasi unusual ang combination na yan. Take care of yourself, lalo na ngayon na pregnant ka pa ulit.